People change like time
None of us are the same as we were yesterday, no matter how constant we are.
People, like time, do not remain the same, no matter how hard we try to hold on to their constants. Experiences, situations, and days leave their mark on us. We grow, learn, suffer, and discover new aspects of ourselves at every stage.
We may think we are constant, but in reality we change slowly. Sometimes we realize it, and sometimes we do not notice it until we look back. Our essence may remain the same, but the details, convictions, and even feelings change as the seasons change.
Change is sometimes negative and sometimes positive depending on the individual's direction and choice. Which version of him will revive it? It is always painful.
Change is not just a transition from one state to another, but rather an internal struggle between what we were and what we become. Pain is an inseparable part of it, whether positive or negative, because it means leaving something familiar behind us, even if it no longer suits us.
But in the end, pain is not always evidence of loss, but it may be a sign that we are growing.
Depending on how much we are aware and happy with ourselves and our lives, we can make a choice
Awareness is the key.
The more aware we are of ourselves and what we really need, the more able we become to choose the version that gives us balance and satisfaction. But the problem is that awareness itself is a long journey, and sometimes it is ambiguous, as we do not realize that we were wrong until it is too late.
Happiness is also an important factor, but it is not always a clear indication, it may be false or temporary. Sometimes we choose what makes us happy at the moment, but in the long run we discover that it was not the right choice.
Some inherited lessons with seizing the skill of learning prevents us from falling into some experiences sometimes
Experiences are not the only way to learn. We can benefit from the experiences of those who came before us, whether through advice, stories, or even our observation of what is going on around us. But on the other hand, there are things that are not truly understood until they are experienced, because feelings and details are not conveyed by words alone.
Having the skill of learning and taking advantage of what is available to us may make us more aware in our choices.
